Give me a Reason to Walk on Fire

When Plan A fails, resort to Plan B. How many times have we heard of that sentence? Enough to voice out "do you think I'm this dumb not to know?". Unfortunately, there are always obstinate souls willing to risk it all by downgrading themselves. If degrading yourself isn't getting you the right guy, it is time to modify your plan.

Why taking the risk and walk on fire when you always have a choice? For girls who wonder about always being categorized under easy, moody, airhead, gold-digger, etc., take a minute to ponder why. You whine, cry, throw tantrum and complain about others being unfair or simply blind. Stop being headstrong and open your eyes. Don't blame your mistakes and actions on others. Take a minute to reflect on yourself. What did you do to earn promiscuous names and to loose people's respect? As redundant as it is, actions always speak louder than words. Take the initiative to improve your image. For instance, if you're in the airhead category, start visiting libraries and bookstores to pick up knowledge. Sophisticated and cultured can take you far. Ignorant and foolish can rip you hard. You claim you don't care about what others see in you, the truth is if you're seriously nonchalant, you wouldn't show signs of bother from the beginning. Remember, you always have a choice to redeem your errors. Start by respecting yourself and involuntarily, society will follow your steps and grant you the respect you deserve.

At the end of the day, guys only divide girls into two unquestionable categories: for marriage or relationship and for warming his bed. Which category would you like to fall under? Choose carefully, wisely and discreetly. Moreover, stop daydreaming and imagining yourself being the lucky lottery winner in marrying a charming, handsome, rich guy. Nothing in this world is free. Like dogs don't choose cats as their mate, great guys don't choose lousy girls as their partner and vice-versa. Want to marry the best guy out there? Make yourself the best girl available. Beware, the latter doesn't consists solely of looks and body but also of intelligence, grace, and most importantly personality. Think of a product: the packaging and the inner content should be equally satisfying accompanied with the best quality. And always remember, with some diligence and perseverance, you always have a choice to become the IT girl.

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